“Love blurs you…

“Love blurs your vision; but after it recedes, you can see more clearly than ever. It’s like the tide going out, revealing whatever’s been thrown away and sunk: broken bottles, old gloves, rusting pop cans, nibbled fishbodies, bones. This is the kind of thing you see if you sit in the darkness with open eyes, not knowing the future.”

by Margaret Atwood, Cat’s Eye


Empty Out


You want more in your life, and you certainly deserve it. The “more” that you want might include love, romance, joy, prosperity, personal fulfillment, and so on. And while the universe is on your side, and is sending good energy to your rescue, you still need to make room in your life for the “more” that you deserve. If old habits, bad relationships, and unnecessary burdens are taking up a lot of space in your life, then no matter what the universe sends you there won’t be a place for it. Make space, and invite in the “more” that you deserve.

When to Walk Away

When a situation between two people has been so life-giving and so wonderful for so long, how do you know when to walk away from it? Is it when it no longer serves you in the way it used to? When is the right time, how can you ever possibly be sure? Are these differences between us constructive differences, or are they obstructions to my true self? Is this situation helping me to grow and broaden, or is it something that is denying me paths and people and feelings that I need for my own development?